Some things don’t work.
Like Spud here trying to fit in the cat bed.
I’ve seen him try so many times to get himself to fit.
But it never happens.
And the crazy thing is his own bed is always nearby.
He can rest comfortably on it, but no.
He keeps working at something that will never happen.
This morning at 2am I was praying.
Not because I wanted to be awake, but because I was wrestling the bed.
As I prayed God spoke.
“Lord, no! I’ve forgiven–”
The Lord only had to mention one word.
I knew instantly.
“Yes, I am still bitter. I’m still hurting and I can’t see around it.”
So, I struggled with forgiving again.
I was frustrated.
“Lord, I’ve done this so many times! I thought it was gone. I thought I’d given it to You. Why has it returned to rob me of my rest and peace?”
You are still hurting.
It was like God tore off a bandage which was simply holding the infection in.
But as I was free to look at myself,
to take stock of the hurt,
I realized where the hurt was coming from.
To see inside oneself through the gifts of God’s discernment is truly humbling and
This isn’t going to be an instant fix.
Bitterness is an invasive disease which sends out runners to every possible point inside a heart.
It links memories and relationships into a web of pain stifling the infected so gradually that it can go unnoticed for a very long time.
And for me to root out those long tendrils of hurting unforgiviness I had to go to the root.
I don’t want to hurt any more.
I can’t change my physical pain, but I’ve been unconsciously trying to protect myself from emotional pain.
The only way to protect myself is something that simply won’t happen.
I’d need to order all the circumstances in my life.
I’d been trying to control things.
I’m not God.
I’m not supposed to try and keep myself safe.
I’m supposed to rest in His Sovereignty.
To leave behind the nonsense which will never work and trust Jesus.
Hurt will come. But I shall heal you.
“Jesus, take every tendril, every shred, every piece of bitterfearhurt and remove it. Thank You for bringing it to my attention. I don’t want to continue to try to control my life, my circumstances, or my family in any way. I want to rest in Your will. I want to trust Your path. I want to be free from the past. Help me…”